Hi All
It’ has been way too long since my last post, my computer caught a virus and when the doctor got it cured I had lost some information like how to get to this site for posting plus school was a little busy. Since my last post I had a book published called “My Girlfriend”, it’s an unedited short book through Author House.
Anyway, what’s this about a “date”? It really wasn’t my date, I just ended up with them. A friend of mine called me up and asked me to meet her, I always enjoy meeting with her so I meet her at a local club. When we met she informed me about this blind date she was meeting. She said she felt a little nervous about the date and the fact that she had us meet at the club and sort of sprung the date information on me at the last minute. I told her anytime she needed me to just call and as long as I am in town I will do my best to be there for her. I admit I was a little curious about the situation and even though I would be the third wheel I was looking forward to it.
We left that club for a few moments and went to another club to see what was happening there. We had a drink, visited with the bar tender and visited with a couple of other ladies before going back to the first club. We went in and sat at the bar and ordered our drinks. Shortly after getting our drinks my friend’s date came over and asked if she was his date. We all shook hands and did the usual “hi there” greetings.
A little bit of time passed and he asked if we wanted too get something to eat which we both agreed it would be nice to have something to eat. We went to a local restaurant and we had a nice long visit. I thought he was being very gentlemanly and polite the whole evening. He did ask me out when my friend went to the bathroom and I reminded him that I am married. I was flattered that he found me attractive yet at the same time he was her date, what is it with guys.
The rest of the evening went very well, we went to another club, I danced with my friend and with a couple of other folks and then we ended back at the first club. While we were at the second club I took my friend in my arms and whispered to her that she should go out again with this guy and this time leave a pair of panties for him to find or just give them to him before they parted. She gave a look and said that I had a deviant mind; still she thought about, we both laughed over that idea.
I’m not sure she’ll be seeing him again, I enjoyed it for the moment and thought about what it would be like for someone else to take me out on a date; I am not so curious to be looking. I enjoyed the experience and will be there for my friend if she every needs me.
Sandra
I just want to add a tip for our readers: for any of you gurls new to online “dating”, I highly recommend that you adhere to a simple rule — always insist that your first in-person meeting take place in a public place. No matter how nice he seems online, never agree to meet a stranger in private until you’ve spent some face time with him in a safe setting.
Our evening was interesting, and I’m really glad Sandra joined us. My informal arrangement with “Rocky” (not his real name) wasn’t actually for a “date” so much as a get-acquainted meeting, but I guess it did turn into a date. I really didn’t have any plan or strategy ahead of time, and only called Gabby and Sandra on the spur of the moment, hoping to keep the situation convivial and figuring that if the thing with Rocky didn’t work out the evening wouldn’t be a total loss. In retrospect, I guess I did spring this on both Rocky and Sandra, which might have been a little presumptuous on my part. To their credit, however, both of them handled the situation gracefully and I think we all had a nice evening. I know Sandra, being a married heterosexual, doesn’t have much experience “with the guys”, and I could tell she was intrigued by the novelty of the experience, so that was kind of fun to observe. Maybe next time I’ll chaperon her!